很少能有一部青春爱情电影能如此打动我，当然，这其中不能排除的因素就是John Cusack。他演过的爱情电影总让我觉得绝望，绝望是因为那些男主角，都不可能出现在现实生活中。从《失恋排行榜》到《缘分天注定》，再到今天这部《情到深处》。
1989年的他，20出头，愣头愣脑，尖尖的鼻子和下巴，长长的睫毛，清秀动人。被当时的评论界称为“乳臭派”。
Cameron Crowe的导演处女作，这个炮制了《香草的天空》《甜心先生》《伊丽莎白镇》的导演对于情感变化的拿捏还真是细腻。可能是因为他早年做过音乐杂志编辑的经历，他的电影里，音乐总是和故事结合的天衣无缝。再说一句，他真的很喜欢用帅哥演员。
这个故事本身并没有什么太多的跌宕起伏，它讲的只是美国高中生的爱情，像所有的青春爱情电影一样，它讲述的无非是爱与被爱，青春期的张狂与叛逆。而一切却在这部电影里用一种看似散散的方式道来，连歇斯底里都是轻轻的，像一段心底的回忆，泛着让人不忍触碰的美好。男女主角一句接一句的爱情箴言在电影里像星火般散落，那样的闪闪动人。而从电影里我们又可以看到其对以后同类电影的影响，小到甚至人物的一个眼神一个动作。Lloyd高举录音机的那一幕早已经经典的不能再经典。让我觉得特别有趣的就是男主角Lloyd回答为什么他能约到Diane时，他挑着眉毛说着：“I’m Lloyd Dobler.”完全就是多年以后《绯闻女孩》里的那句“I’m Chuck Bass”的古董级版本。
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后面剧透，慎入

从Lloyd一句“I want to get hurt!”开始，我开始为他和Diane的爱情担惊受怕。
Diane是那种典型的优等生，保守、谨慎、自卑。其实大家喜欢她，只是不敢言表。
于是一个叫Lloyd的男生出现了，他心里没有那么多道理，只是知道我喜欢那个女孩，那个叫Diane的女孩。于是他在与Diane的第一次通话时就对她说：“Let’s go out!”，幸福其实就是这样不期而至。于是有了第一次约会后街边浅浅的拥抱，他穿着长风衣运动鞋，她光着脚丫穿着雪白的礼服。
Lloyd这样的男生是透明的，爱就是爱，没什么好掩饰的。
他却是长辈眼中的“distraction”，话说回来，这样的男生怎么能不让你distract。喧闹的舞会上，即使不在一起，他也会时时刻刻check up on她；清晨闲聊的街头，一句“watch out for the glass”，他踢开玻璃，然后轻轻拉她绕过。他冒冒失失，他絮絮叨叨，他在饭桌上那一番关于“买卖加工产品”之类翻来覆去的言论实在是有趣。看了那么多电影以后我突然发现一件事，原来我喜欢“话痨”一样的男人。从《缘分天注定》里的Jonathan到这部电影里的Lloyd。
非常喜欢琴行里那一幕，他抱着吉他，脸上挂着掩饰不住的喜悦，女死党们告诉他要送花写信以示尊重，他只是平静的掏出那封蓝色的信说：“I already did.”，那句“I will always be there for you, all the love in my heart”已经足够。而我们也只有像他的那两个女死党一样，用一种沉醉却又失落的眼神看着Lloyd，说出那句酸酸的“I have never got one(letter) like this. Have you?”“I dream about it.”而这一幕，也正好对应了前面，几个女死党在一起讨论“If you were Diane, would you fall for Lloyd? ”那一幕，现在看来，答案自不必说。
16周，他只是想好好的陪着她。就像他对Diane的父亲说的“what I want to do for a living is be with your daughter, I am good at it.”目的单纯，所以才会心碎。分手后，Lloyd一个人开着车，他用力的眨了一下眼睛，用手掌抹了一下眼泪，若无其事的看着前方，那种空洞的眼神，被那时的John Cusack演绎得恰到好处。他在电话亭里打电话，那件大衣湿漉漉的贴在身上，他苦笑着说：“I gave her my heart, she gave me a pen.”让人心疼。他跑去和一群男孩聊天，男孩们说着自己多了解女人，说着为了一个女孩不值得之类的话。而Lloyd歪着头眯着眼睛蹦出一句“if you know about women, how come you are at a Gas’n Sip on a Saturday night drinking beers with no women anywhere?”。好聪明的小桥段，比起让一个女人说出这句话，让一个男人说出来显然更是一击响亮的耳光，扇在那些男人们脸上。
在我看来Lloyd和Diane感情始终就好像一场情感不同步的爱情，你永远感受不到对方撕心裂肺的痛苦。当女主角在拳击场一遍又一遍的说着“我爱你”时，我只觉得厌恶，同样想问Lloyd问的问题“Are you here because you need someone?”。Lloyd一句“Forget it, I don’t care.”谈何容易。
“Ding”的一声，戛然而止，他们的爱情呢？他们会长久吗？
我的答案是——“不会”

经典台词
电影剪辑： http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=irckWc-Pm3o

Lloyd Dobler: She's gone. She gave me a pen. I gave her my heart, she gave me a pen

[Lloyd's letter to Diane] Dear Diane, I'll always be there for you. All the love in my heart, Lloyd.

Lloyd Dobler: I'm gonna take Diane Court out again.
Corey Flood: Well, that's unlikely.
Lloyd Dobler: Is the movies a good second date? You know, as a date?
Corey Flood: Well, you never had a first date.
Lloyd Dobler: Yes we did. I sat across from her at a mall. We ate together. We ate. That's eating. Sharing an important physical event.
Corey Flood: That's not even a scam.
Lloyd Dobler: What's a scam?
Corey Flood: Going out as friends.
D.C.: No, it's not. Scam is lusting.
Corey Flood: I'm sorry, it's just that you're a really nice guy and we don't want to see you get hurt.
Lloyd Dobler: I want to get hurt!

Lloyd Dobler: Why can't you be in a good mood? How hard is it to decide to be in a good mood and be in a good mood once in a while?"
Constance: Gee, it's easy.

Lloyd Dobler: I don't want to sell anything, buy anything, or process anything as a career. I don't want to sell anything bought or processed, or buy anything sold or processed, or process anything sold, bought, or processed, or repair anything sold, bought, or processed. You know, as a career, I don't want to do that.

Diane Court: I just can't have any social life right now.
Lloyd Dobler: Don't worry about it. We're just having coffee. We'll be anti-social.
Diane Court: Be friends?
Lloyd Dobler: Yeah. With potential.

Lloyd Dobler: I got a question. If you guys know so much about women, how come you're here at like the Gas 'n' Sip on a Saturday night completely alone drinking beers with no women anywhere?
Joe: By choice, man.

Lloyd Dobler: You probably got it all figured out, Corey. If you start out depressed everything's kind of a pleasant surprise.

D.C.: Lloyd, why do you have to be like this?
Lloyd Dobler: 'Cause I'm a guy. I have pride.
Corey Flood: You're not a guy.
Lloyd Dobler: I am.
Corey Flood: No. The world is full of guys. Be a man. Don't be a guy.

Lloyd Dobler: What I really want to do with my life - what I want to do for a living - is I want to be with your daughter. I'm good at it.

Lloyd Dobler: Just knowing that a version like that exists, knowing that just for a minute she felt that and wrote "I can't help loving you". That has to be worth something.

Lloyd Dobler: Oh... you must think I'm a dick.
Diane Court: No, Lloyd, we shared the most intimate thing two people can share...
Lloyd Dobler: You shared it with a dick.

Lloyd Dobler: [leaving the last of a series of messages on Diane's answering machine] "Maybe I didn't really know you. Maybe you were just a mirage. Maybe the world is full of food and sex and spectacle and we're all just hurling towards an apocalypse, in which case it's not your fault. I'm been thinking about all these things and... you're probably standing there monitoring. And one more thing - about the letter. Nuke it. Flame it. Destroy it. - It hurts me to know it's out there. Later."

因为歌去看的电影，学霸女遇到泰拳小子的故事，高中毕业后的告白，故事很简单，放到现在就是一部青春电影，学生时代的爱情很纯粹，就是为了明白爱是什么。
约会是有爱的可能性的预先安排，爱又是什么？爱是宁愿受伤也要勇敢尝试。没有那么多条条框框，前思后虑，我没有想过以后做什么，我只想这个暑假好好陪她。
一个是父母不在身边，一个是单亲，他让姐姐gets a good mood,她也看到了母亲重新找到了另一半。男生遇到了每个人都会遇到的毕业职业选择和爱情，女生则是在爱情和信任父亲而要去英国留学的选择中徘徊，其中穿插了一段摆脱渣男的遭遇，谁能不遇到几个渣男呢。
在吵闹的毕业派对上，某个早晨的相互倾诉，在海风吹散的岸边，某条寂静的道路上，某个下雨的电话亭，在即将启程的机舱内……
just take this pan please and write to me.
no body really think it can work,do they?

这部电影因为配角的塑造而堪称经典，台词非常讨喜，女方的父亲和男方的闺蜜非常真实，而那么一群损友们的现实生活代入感真是用言语无法表达，最精彩的一段台词如下：

01:08:59 --> 我应该问问朋友们，可是他们能给我答案吗？
[John] I should be like those guys who hang at the AM-PM or the Gas 'n' Sip. But do guys like that know the answers?

[Buddy] No babe is worth it, you know? We'll teach you bibles of truths. You can't trust them. Know what it is?
They spend your money and tell their friends. It's economics.
You gotta find a girl who looks just like her...
...nail her and dump her.Get her off your mind.
Diane Court is a show pony.You need a stallion, my friend.

- Walk with us and walk tall.
MAN: Walk tall.
- Bitches, man!
MAN: Give him a complex.

- Dude, I better bail.
MAN: Okay, man.
- Later, Luke.
- Be cool, man.

[John] I got a question.If you know so much about women......why are you at a Gas 'n' Sip alone on a Saturday, with no women anywhere?

{无法回答的一段沉默，然后一起找到最佳借口，这一段那群损友的面部表情太神了}

[Buddy] - By choice, man.
- It's a conscious choice.
We're choosing to be here.
- I'm choosing it.
- Dude, where'd she dump you, man?

[John] - My car.

[Buddy]- Your car?
- Dissed in the Malibu?
- Oh, heinous!
- That's your castle, man.
- No chance with a girl like that.
Hey, man. I was in love once, man.I got hurt really bad.
I never wanna go through that again.
- You're bringing me down!
- Shut up, man!

[Buddy] We're going to a kegger. We'd like you to come.
We're gonna find you a babe, man. We're gonna find you one hot babe. Instantly! Promise! One hot babe for you!

[John] I won't meet a girl like Diane at a kegger.
She was different. We didn't even have to go out to go out. We'd just hang. The girl made me trust myself, man. I was walking around,feeling satisfied. Can you imagine that? And then she cuts me loose. I don't know why. She won't say.Who knows the reason?
Maybe it's her father. She won't talk to me. Won't look at me.


[Buddy] Come on!
- Christ, what's up with you?
- You're freaking out!
- Chill, man!
- You're wigging.
He's wigging, man
He's wigging
I don't even feel that way
about my car.
He's wigging every day

Dude, name a babe, okay?
Any babe in Seattle. I'll set you up.

[John] Diane Court!

[Buddy] Dude, I can't do it, buddy.

Lloyd, Lloyd
All null and void
Listen to the truth
You're trying to avoid, Lloyd

[John] That was a mistake. 找这群损友聊天就是个错误

1989年的约翰·库萨克，还没有拖家带口，还不必带着一双儿女、前妻，以及前妻的丈夫死命挣脱2012的末日绝境。《情到深处》里的他，茸茸的眼睫毛，小小的嘴巴，尖尖的鼻子和下巴，有点受气的青涩高中生模样，全心全意地去爱一个女孩儿。这份爱不甜不腻，不疯不傻，留有自尊，充满体贴，大部分时间伴随着焦虑与惶恐……这样一个看上去只知道打拳的男孩儿，却将多少男人一辈子做不到，多少女人此生梦寐以求的那份爱，在大银幕上呈现出来，映入每一个观者的心里，20多年过去了，如今看起来，依然美好得让人落泪。
一个平庸的高中小混混，追到获得顶尖学府奖学金女生的几率是多少？在多数人眼中几乎是不可能的。但千万别忘了，那些学习好得出奇的女生，也不都是食古不化，其中也不乏活泼善良的，她们只是想在该学习的时间好好学习罢了。而一旦有合适的人走入她的心灵，有什么理由不接纳呢？所以，在Lloyd于不经意间踢走碎玻璃的那一刻，这傻小子已经成功一半了。
然而，Diane的生活中不只有Lloyd，还有她的父亲和学业，正如我们每个人的生命中不会只有爱情一样。而且Diane所面临的，是使父亲面临牢狱之灾的指控，是远赴异国求学的前程。这个理性的女孩子，再一次选择了也许并非她最喜欢，但认为自己绝对应该做的事情。这让Lloyd痛苦万分，看着他在车里抹眼泪的样子，又重新意识到他只是个孩子。
而就是这样一个孩子，在Diane遭受重大挫折后重新找到他时，说出了那句感人的话——
一个问题：你来这儿是因为需要一个人还是只需要我？……算了，我不在乎。
Lloyd，你双手高举录音机站在窗外的样子很帅，但那不是你赢得Diane的爱的理由。正如你所说，你给她的，是这一颗心。

为什么看这部“穷小子追富家女”一点也不觉得矫揉造作。

作为尖子学生的女主难免成为别人眼中的奇葩，不过Cusack也绝对是个另类。

这么个打拳的大高个一点也不糙不蠢，和那几个单细胞生物般的普通男生大相径庭。虽然他未来可能一片迷茫，我相信是因为有想法却没动力前进，而女主是他转折，他有的温柔贴心风趣，改“人妻”套用在他身上叫“人夫”，绝对适合结婚的类型。最喜欢被分手后在车子里自言自语录音的场景，要是女孩能听到磁带！绝对是世界上最浪漫的情话！

女主的类型就是为了自己的未来不断往上爬，她自己也明白不太适宜处对象、会显得有些自私。但是没有点波折怎么会知道自己需要什么人呢。

没想到真的互相使对方自信，他是她的港湾，她是他的动力。这便是最美的校园爱情