Letting go of people or traditions is hard because you invest so much in them that to let go can be scary . But it can also be liberating...or even essential to your happiness.If you don't let go ,you can find yourself in a dark place unable to kick your worst habits.And sometimes , if we truely love someone we have to be okay with letting go.
让旧人和传统过去是很难的,因为你投入了太多而害怕失去。但是让它们过去也可以是一件解放身心、甚至必要的变快乐的途径。如果你不让过去过去,你可能会让自己深陷黑暗的角落,无力摆脱最坏的习惯。所以有时候,如果你真的爱过一个人,你不得不温柔地对过去说再见。
Geoffrey Chaucer wrote: “time heals all wounds,” but what he failed to mention was the scar those wounds leave behind. The painful things that happened to us permanently leave their mark. They don't necessarily hurt anymore but they are always there as a reminder, as a memory. And as time passes maybe the memory gets a little fuzzy. But we always have the scar to remind us it happened that we lived through it, that we survived.
杰弗里·乔叟写到:"时间会治愈一切伤口"。但他没提到,那些伤口留下的疤痕。那些发生在我们身上痛苦的事,会永远地留下记号。它们不必再带来伤痛,但它们会像备忘录,像回忆那样一直存在,随着时间的流逝,也许回忆会渐渐模糊,但总会有伤疤提醒我们发生过的事。我们经历过,然后挺过来。
— Carrie Bradshaw, The Carrie Diaries S01E13
Right now, the label on me would say, "Heartbroken, extra large." But the one thing that you have to remember about the labels--they only matter if you let them stick.
高中生的泡沫时装剧 还能有多少高要求
去年夏天看完的剧
剧情比较平庸
唯一记住的就是sebastian的金发碧眼加微笑 (果然对北欧血统毫无抵抗力)
还有就是几句carrie的一些内心独白
比方说--
“There's a breif moment when you first wake up where you have no memories -- a blissful blank slate, a happy emptiness. But it doesn't last long, and you remember exactly where you were, and what you were trying to forget--...--what is worse, you have no one to be angry with except yourself.”
再比方说--
“When my mom died, I didn't cry at all, once. I think because, in a way, I've been numb ever since. But not tonight. I felt everything. I felt happy. So happy that I couldn't handle it for a second. But I'm ready. To feel everthing.”
然后就是最上面的一段话 也是第一季剧终引言
time,
wounds,
scar,
memory,
live thourgh
survive...
听过一遍 就再也难忘
太过感同身受
就因为这一点 推荐一下~
Those lost are perhaps the first step to adulthood. Life is getting more complicated.
I am searching for myself. Who I was? Who I wanna to be?
Finding my voice wasn't gonna be easy, but it might be fun.
I feel more confident like I know the staff. but scared 'cause there's something to lose
没有看过欲望都市所以我不评价两者相关性问题,给五分是因为我觉得他的台词真的很好,因为台词我可以三刷一些剧集,每一集都有一个主题,每个主题下是时间线并行的几个小故事,通过不同的人不同的选择呈现不同的结果,很喜欢这种讲故事的方法,下面是我很喜欢的一段,主题是 caught 看似相去甚远的两个故事,编剧却能把他们用一个话题整合到一起,并借carrie讲出自己的看法,不生硬又很有意义
We all feel caught at some point or another between choices. As the Band Devo said, "Freedom of choice is what we want. Freedom from choice is what we need." Having choice, at first, feels exciting, but after a while it can also be overwhelming, like we're trapped with no clear way out. Some people get caught between their secrets and wanting to do the right thing, while others are caught between their desires and their ambitions.
sometimes we have to fake it to make it.after a while,what's fake becomes truth
freedom of choice is what we want;freedom from choice is what we need.having choices, at first,feels exciting. after a while,it will be overwhelming.like we're trapped with no clear way out
they say that with knowledge comes power,so it's safe to assume the inverse is also true---with no knowledge comes vulnerability.
what we don't know about the people we love, or what we don't know about love,period,can be scary.but maybe that fear is ok.what is out there that is unkown can propel us to do more.
虽然剧情有点雷,不过每集日记里面的内容很经典,值得收录下来!
不定时更新在我的日记:
http://www.douban.com/note/316206188/
【S01E02 】"Lie with me"
They say that the eyes are the window to the soul, that looking into someone's eyes is to know the truth, to know what's real. The same could be said for the city that never sleeps. It's honest and totally awesome.
Pinocchio(匹诺曹) was a puppet that wanted to be a real boy. All he had to do was be truthful, and his wish would come true. And even then, he couldn't help but lie.
Doing the right thing is hard. Maybe because lying is often easier than the truth. And sometimes it actually gets what you want. But at some point, like Pinocchio's nose, the lies just keep growing until it's hard to tell what's real and what's not. And we can either live in that world of make-believe or face the truth and everything that comes with it.
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【S01E03】"Read before use"
Let's face it. Life is easier if you read the labels, like "Do not put it in dryer" "Expiration date: one week ago". Everyting we wear, everything we eat--they all have labels. The same is true for everyone we know, "Stoner(酒鬼)" "Class clown" "Well-meaning but ultimately clueless guidance counselor" and "The boy of my deams".
Now I knew what it said on Sebastion(人名)'s label--"Contents under pressure, handle with care". Unfortunately, I never bothered to read it. That's the tricky thing about labels.
Once in a while, they tell us everything we need to know. But most of the time, it's only a very small part of the story. Slapping a word or two on a person can make things worse. In reality, nothing is ever as simple as the label we give it.
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【S01E04】"Fright Night"
The scarest thing in high school: when someone breaks your heart, it's such a small place that you can't avoid them. It's ironic. The time in your life when you're least capable of managing your emotions is the same time you're locked up for eight hours a day with the people responsible for those emotions in the first place. It was like I was living in my own personal horror film--"The Rise of the Boy who Broke My Heart". And apparently it was playing everywhere.
Valentine's day is about love. Christmas is about giving. Arbor day(植树节) is about trees, I guess. I get celebrating all those things, but Halloween? Halloween is a holiday where we put on costumes and try on different versions of ourselves--the princess, the demon(恶魔), the bird flying free.
It's fun not to be "us", and to not have to face the reality of who we really are and the things that scare us, like our vulnerabilities(脆弱), or what we really want for ourselves, or our fear of change and what it will inevitably(必然地) bring. Being someone else for a night can be fun or scary. Either way, it's only one night, and when the masks are off and we're being ourselves again, we have nothing to hide behind, and maybe that's okey.
But my night in Manhattan(曼哈顿) had taught me one thing: No matter what you're going through, it's always better if you have people to share it with. I was lucky, I wasn't an island at all.
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【S01E05】"Dangerous territory"
When we think about entering new unchartered(未知的) territory, it always comes with the idea that we forge ahead. And that's true to some degree. But often to forge ahead, we have to look back to understand what we're leaving behind. And it can be scary because behind us, there are often blind spots--things we want to ignore or couldn't even see, that can stop us from our journey forward, but only if you let them.
At some point, you have to let go of the past and stop looking behind and embrace what comes next. I was entering new territory, moving on, letting go of the old. My mom was right: Sometimes change is good.
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【S01E06】"endgame"
When we focus too much on our endgame(结局), we can miss the fun of the journey, we can miss the detour(绕道) that would take us somewhere even more rewarding.
We like to set goals, because they give us a feeling of control. But control is an illusion, because sometimes the earth moves, and we have to deal with wherever we end up, whether it's on solid ground or not.
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【S01E07】"caught"
We all feel caught at some point or another between choices. As the Band Devo(退化乐队) said, "Freedom of chioce is what we want. Freedom from choice is what we need." Having choice, at first, feels exciting, but after a while it can also be overwhelming, like we're trapped with no clear way out. If you're lucky, you might find someone is there to catch you when you finally escape the web. But most of the time, it's harder.
Some people get caught between their secrets and wanting to do the right thing, while others are caught between their desires and their ambitions.
I was faced with tough decision, for sure. But I no longer felt caught between what I wanted and what my dad wanted. I realized this was my life, and I wasn't going to have any regrets.
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【S01E08】"hush hush" 保密
We all have secrets. when we're little, they start off innocent--A hiding place, a stash(藏匿处) of candy, a hush-hush crush. But as we get older, our secrets get bigger and better.
Often what we want, what we desire is something we keep deep inside of us. Something so dear and so special, it feels too scary to let it out into the open. It's our own little secret, and therefore, safe from harm. But maybe we have to let those secrets out in order to actually really live. The fallout from those secrets being revealed is often hard, or sometimes surprising and maybe even inevitable.
I wasn't given a choice, but I think I was relieved that all my secrets were out. And even though I was scared, I was also relieved not to have to hide my feelings anymore. It wasn't much, but it's a start.
被砍了.....但是结局还算 ok 第二季比第一季好看! ||第一集看到18分鐘 音樂80年代的風情 決定追了
也不知道cw是怎么想的·看satc的那批人难道还会自降智商回头看这种三流青春剧么。还有这种服装造型也敢叫发顺?····在颜料盒里打个滚也比这样好吧·····
我觉得此类高中剧还是挺不错的。。。比较吸引我。。尤其是塞巴斯蒂安太帅了!!!!
这部美剧吸引我的只有男主坏坏的笑容,没有之一。
多少人是冲着《欲望都市》来看这部所谓欲望都市前传《凯利日记》的,剧情就是一般的校园青春偶像剧,演员都还算讨喜,只是照现在凯利的清纯模样想要变成那个欲望都市里的曼哈顿欲女目测还得好几季,亚洲妹子莫斯是全剧尿点,男主角是整部剧的颜存在,看起来真的好好吃的样子!!
期待下一季
女主身材比例有问题,男主帅得无法直视!
我爱。奥斯汀。巴特勒!
剧情无所谓 有个无敌养眼的金发小帅哥在每集出现就足够了~
Leave sex and the city alone,please
三星全给 Austin Butler!!!我没有在看剧,我只在看脸!!!美颜さいこう!!!么么哒 !!!居然为了他还重翻了CSINY第七季,我花痴了~・:*:・(*/////∇/////*)・:*:・
男主角好帅!!!好帅!!!!好帅!!!!!!! 男配角好帅!!!好帅!!!好帅!!!!
娘啊,我无聊到开始看青春偶像剧了,故事其实还不错,但是女主实在是太像侏儒了,按照朋友交往的身高基本相等规则,她的朋友还真是不合常理。
只看一集就评价显得很草率。但只要一集,就能看出CW和HBO的差距,既然CW执着于弱智的少男少女青春偶像,不妨就不要牵扯Sex and the City,除了女主角名字相同,也实在找不到什么其他关联了。PS 我对复古风接受度极低。
《凯利日记》我看前十分钟就发现丫是一部类似《绯闻女孩》的玛丽苏剧了,就是灰姑娘在学校里,没人看她,突然某天一个白马王子入校,然后主动上前接近她之类的,那种莫明其妙的意淫情节。
只要是个男的都很帅 男主更是帅到灭绝人性 让人直接忽略了剧情
女主角长着成年人的脸小孩子的身材,看着不舒服
直到如今,任何其它电视有叫Carrie的角色还是会让我有深深的违和感。
不知不觉就已经完结了!之前说电视台不续订什么的也不知道是真的还是假的~回归日子漫长无天日啊!(ps:男主是我的菜!)
女主角是没变残的林赛罗韩,男主角是没长歪的小鬼当家,黑人姐姐是火炬木的腐女,综合感觉就是每首配乐大概都被老黄翻唱过,而且妹妹养的仓鼠还叫莫里西呢(¯﹃¯)我爱八十年代!