大学之旅

当初从verycd上下这个片子是因为喜欢它这个名字。
where does the time go?
那些美好的时光都哪里去了？

但看mtime上的评论，大家都说很乱，很吵。看的时候真的感觉很吵。直到他们在bus上唱歌。
他们敞开心扉交谈。我们或多或少，在成长的过程中都会遇到同样的问题。不是吗？我们总是觉得父母不了解我们，而我们大多数时候又不得不装做听话的好孩子。

但总得上路，总得开始我们自己的生活。
trust us!我们会学会自己长大。就像当初你们从爷爷奶奶那里挣脱出来。

知道你们会担心，会一直担心。
但pleast trust us.

College Road Trip is a movie reading a common generation gap between the father and his loved daughter just like general family faced with. Father developed five reasons for choosing the perfect college for his little girl. Academics, distance from home, campus safety, distance from home, and last but not least, distance from home. Of course, the key one is distance from home. Why? In his mind, she is just a little girl needing his protection.

A near college is for his convenience. Then he chose Northwestern which is forty miles from their house and he can get there in 28 minutes, clocked. Obviously, his daughter has her thought. Georgetown is her future. Her open mother supported her idea. A discrepancy between the girl and her father appeared. What was the next?

The interesting college road trip became a new start. It is a great way for the girl and the father to know each other better more then a trip to Georgetown. Northwestern, their first stop, is the father arranged making a special effort. He wanted his daughter to love the school and realize the disadvantage in Georgetown. Unfortunately, the effort got the opposite of what his wants. Misfortunes never come singly. Their car turning over, they went on the college road trip again. Thanks for is unlucky experience, they had an opportunity to recall before on a bus. The daughter sang the song they used to sing together when she was little. Besides, she told her father what she thought and she would love him all the time. Things looked like to be well. A misunderstanding came. The daughter believed her father did not change for he came to the place that she stayed with her friend. Actually, her father was conscious of his overstrain after he heart what his daughter said to her friend stealthily. To our gratification, they understood each other finally. By the way, they chose a special way to arrived the college on time and the girl had her wish fulfilled. They were unexpected to make friends with another family they met on the trip.

The movie is end, but the life is not. The easy story with interesting plots told us misunderstanding would be a question if you were really willing to deal with. Generation gap wasn’t an obstacle in every family.

A life lesson teaches us to live better with the one you loved and loving you.

孩子与父母的关系，
比较老套的话题，不想说太多
情节起伏，节奏轻松明快
需要学习的是西方的教育理念与父母孩子之间的交流沟通的方式。
看过本片之后，发现以前对西方的父母子女之间关系的误读，原来也有这样舍不得孩子的美国爸爸，所谓的“控制狂”。
无论何时，在父母眼中我们都是小孩子。所以，静静的倾听母亲的唠叨吧！默默地感受父亲的眼神吧！在父母的身边尽情的做孩子，因为，不管多大年纪、不管走到哪里、不管我们成为谁，父母永远是我们的心灵的皈依！

没有意外的结局和过程。女儿的成长和父亲对其的接受。每个人成长的时候和家人都会有着这样或者那样的摩擦。其实又有多严重呢？不过大家成长没有同步，其中的过程只是机械的去参与而忘记去接受去参悟。最好的不过是互相坦诚的交流和理解。
周六的下午，温馨的电影，让我在这个烈日当头的时候很想快乐的跳舞，简单的快乐无非就是简单的幸福。

对于电影我是个不怎么挑的人，打发时间么，基本什么都看的
这片子竟然让我都没有看完的冲动，看到一半就看不下去了，太闷了，找不到笑点。。。。。。无聊无聊无聊。。。。。。

片中最后一个镜头是一个署上了CONFIDENTIAL的信封，看到这里，我才明白，他们的小儿子已经凭借对于ALBERT这头神奇小猪的改造成功的进入了国家安全局。

整部片子当中，对于女儿选择西北大学或者GEORGETOWN UNIVERSITY的事情是明线，而对于小儿子的创造力描述也是暗线。其实，在我看来，当父亲看到儿子和ALBERT这头神奇猪一起躺在汽车后备箱里面而不生气的时候，片中的结局已经有了眉目。

敢于为了自己未来而打拼的女儿，值得肯定，敢于在最后时刻想开一切，放手让女儿追求想要生活的父亲更加令人感动。

警察局出生的父亲历来是控制狂，不过在女儿的感化之下，父亲的心理防线渐渐坍塌，最终，女儿如愿进入了GEORGETOWN UNIVERSITY，皆大欢喜。

值得一提的是，片子当中的细节处理非常到位，是一部轻松的美国特色的喜剧片。

可能是人长大了，不那么单纯了，所以看迪斯尼拍的真人电影都觉得假的不行，而且很生硬，强制的给人灌输一些关于家庭，亲情，生活等等这些，都是美好的这样一个概念，之所以没有给这个电影一星是因为尚且还有马丁劳伦斯的参与，可是我很不明白迪斯尼为什么要选择制作一部黑人“喜剧”来烘托他们这次的温馨主题，如果我说黑人喜剧就应该是R级的才好看，很多朋友会有不同意见，但是黑人喜剧中真正出彩的基本都是黑人似的幽默：拿自己的肤色和生活窘境打岔，拿白人打岔，拿黑人的音乐之类的打岔，拿黑人与白人的反差打岔，类似小姐好白，还有少不了的脱口秀似幽默，南方公园和白烂贱客等剧中的白人们也具备这一能力，还有所谓粗口的街头俚语，但是这一点完全没有在片中体现。中产的家庭，做警察的爸爸，有正当工作的妈妈，考入大学的女儿，也许这些元素可以组成一部不错的别的类型的喜剧，但绝不是黑人喜剧。

一个醒的比鸡早睡的比鸡完的不太顾家的爸爸，一个整天唠唠叨叨不是跟别的老女人扯淡，就是一边炸着猪排一边抱怨这抱怨那的妈妈，一个游手好闲没有工作离不了Mary Jane并且有时候还要靠卖他赚钱的儿子，一个虽然在读大学但是性格反叛分不清谁是好人谁是坏人并且看不起他那游手好闲的兄弟的女儿。

这才是黑人喜剧。